DEAR LADIES

…..some young ladies are making another woman cry day in and out because they go out with their husband… The woman is in pain and her children are equally stressed and financially starved… Yes you can enjoy those lavish things he is offering you now so that you can “slay” and clear all bills at these expensive chill spots in Lusaka when you go out with your fellow bandits… But one thing you seem to forget is that “curses” do happen and are for real…
When your time to marry comes, even just to find a husband who does perm/wet look and wears a white four corner shoes and yellow suit, it won’t be easy! Karma will come at play and in order to reverse the curses you will need to make serious sacrifices at the shrine before the Chief Priest before your forefathers can forgive you and break the curse.. You will need to provide the Chief Priest with the following in order to reverse the curse;
1. 5 He goats 🐐
2. 3 White Virgin Hens
3. Sperms of a snake
4. 7 eggs of a spider 🕷
5. Soil from the grave of your mothers grandmother.
Imagine yourself in the future going through all these pains/ struggles just to reverse a curse that you had a choice over… I know times are hard and people want to fit easily and move with the latest fashion/technology… But remember you don’t live to impress your friends or compete with friends!! Stay in your walk path and life will be better…
# Always remember that whatever you with a married man will be curse to you… not now or today but in the future! No matter what Uncle Bae offers you, just reject that… You have the power and ability to get that on your own… Avoid being cursed!….

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Heartfelt

come clean if you r irritated..dnt pretend you do care yet u r busy entertaining n aving gud time with someone else…ave never heard anyone condemned of being honest,unless u r dealing with corrupt minds.When u hear suggesting that u be a man and face the fact is humble telling u to be sincere..playing with one mind isnt a tough job but i prefer respecting someone i mean honestly i will tell u if things arent working the way i want but coward person will double deal…pretending is caring.as it goes out of sight out of mind…mmh i like that,so lets stick around and ave some fun..but if at all u wanna still want it to work out,rectify ur claws.Damn!!its sight is scary..tired of forcing it to work out..eish iam a humanbeing got feelings too…enough is enough i had better past than what am experiencing…4 once i wanted a humble life but i assume it was not ment to happen..i’m used to limelight socially to b precise..i dnt blame u my dear,u r poisoned as the day goes…i can only judge u that u lack principal in you…u r swayed like flag,i dnt regret knowing you..i regret the day i trusted n being optimistic towards you..all this are my sincere thoughts that i felt in my heart n soul to a friend.#No#punIntended

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Transition

people refer it as resolution but i call it transformation,with all the influence i had,cant believe i overcomed it,i thank jah 4 this,4 sure am changing..i know i wasn’t an addict but i was turning to be,it started through peer pressure back in teenage life..it was swagg to me..some will laugh..as many like the phrase”God said love ur enemy n parents say alcohol is..i cant forget also word that goes “Alcohol kills slowly,so who said we are in hurry to die..hahaha thats funny till u realise that unsoberness kills.How come a friend can buy as much liqour as ur body can consume..but can never exchange money with..juz contemplate n give me a gud reason,YES!!ofcourse it destoys my dear friend..what madee share this is that..i got a friend who is in rehab at the moment..we started together as fun but i am lucky i was principled enough..it was God sympathy coz i cant say it was my will..too bad 4 my pal but i am optimistic she will eventually come out a victor not a victim..i am proud to say i’ve quit drinking…to my pals if you wanna buy me drink..juice cocktail wil do me good..Believe or not am done,anyway why believe yet between the word there is a lie,so take it or leave it,Ooh!just mot to forget i party alot so dn’t mistake my hobby with an alcohol addict..whoever reading this SHARE.it does help,i’m wil inspire someone if not you..HEY!!dnt copyright..i will SUE YOu..Again dnt take it personal

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Run your own race

I dn’t try to dance better than anyone else.i only try to dance better than myself.comparing yourself to others is an effective way to demotivate yourself.even if you start with ethusiasm,you will soon lose your energy when you compare yourself to others.
Dont let that happen to you.you ave your own race so how other pple perfome is irrelevant.comparing the perfomance of a swimmer with a runner using same time standard.They r different so how can u compare.The only competitor u ave is uaself.The only one u need to beat is u,be the best coz u can be,success is not final,failure is not fatal,it is the courage that counts,when u meet obstacles along the way.there cud b tendency of quit.just focuson taking one more step forward & u will complete the race.Each day be done with,keep in mind that you did what u cud.Do not settle for mediocrity,let yourself motivation take you to Excellence.#BELIEVE!!

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Get out of cacoon

i hate u that is the word thrending in mind but i also find it understatement,infact i despise you so much!its a matter of time before u find out that am also not a fool to b used like a tool;i can dance to ur tune just to suit your song but i can also disappoint u in whatever way…..an intelligent n sophisticated lady like me has her own tactics to make anyone ruined…4 now i cant display my weapons,there is right time for everything u know!let me enjoy the hide n seek n see who will b caught,i find myself intact n i’m doing you a favour being around…people grow tired of waiting,being patient of your ungreatful you n am one of them…you should change the company of friends u hang with coz oneday u wil regret,they r not doing you any good,despite of you being honest to them…Do not wait until its too late before u realise i am right

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That’s me

I’m not cool girl and no matter how hard i try to be it will never be who you want me be;i’m intense,passionate,emotional,socially akward,earnest & vulnerable.I get upset,angry anxious,jealous,neuretic,insecure and i overthink every single thing.
I live my life constantly in the pursuit of perfection,the fact that perfection is unattainable i believe that the harder i push for perfection the closer i get to greatness,i demand more from everyone because i see great potential and i only want whats the best for my self & those who are part of my life.No! i’m not cool girl,infact i’m pretty much the antithesis of what every man says he wants,i can be a little bit crazy and bitchy atimes,i’m closeted romantic,capable of random hook ups and i hate  the idea of casual sex,i’m incapable of being in a mediocre passion,i’m will not burry my emotions and pretend to be someone i’m not….i will not pretend that i don’t like you when i do,that i don’t miss you when i do,that i don’t want  more from you when i do,i will text you when i feel like it,ask you hard questions that i need answers to,i will not quietly sit and watch you waste your life away and mosr of all i will not blindly agree with everything you say…..No! i’m not cool girl and whilst i might  not posses  the pedestal level of chill or indifference that is viewed as desirable,i can compromise you that no one will love you as much,i will push you as hard  & stand by you longer enough….yeah!i might not be cool girl but i’m filled with passion & purpose.i’m detailed and i’m nuanced,i’m creative,opiniated,intense,unpredictable and not to forget i can be very entertaining.i have goals dreams, life of my own and i value them as much as perhaps even more than i do any Romantic Relationship

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Egocentric

Most women need this answer because it has been a thrending question from women.she said i’m perfect,beautiful,career minded,own money cooks well does whatever he wants in bed,loyal,intelligent,Respectful but still he cheats on me.
Men cheat on a loyal women to boost their Ego.he ends up cheating on you with ugly kangaroo looking girl.How a man threats a woman is not a reflection of her WORTH.Nor a reflection on anything she lacks or is not doing.He does this because he thinks he does not deserve you,to him his weakness and sensitive mind tells him he is to down to earth to your league and he is not strong enough.He is afraid of you coming to realization that u dnt need him afterall.Cheating on you gives him POWeR over you!!
Men nowdays are insecure and ave lower Esteem.He says”i only fuck with bad bitches”.Just to convince himself attempting to drown out his insecurities that are on repeat inside his own mind.A man knows if he cheats on a loyal woman,you as his woman will care about him thinking that you ave done not much to keep him yours.At first i know u will be shocked,then you will try to stay with him to prove that the other woman is not even close better than you.You can never change a bad boy to be a good man..Get that right through ur thick brain.Stop fooling yourself my dear.Its a Reverse psycology.An intelligent woman knows what she WORTHS!!
To soften up abit this note,women,Dont think think/assume all men cheat.in some point they are those who ave NEVER!They know if they cheat on a loyal woman,he would not only cheat her but himself.The idea that men are incapable of monogamous is false.To wind up i tell men SHOW A GIRL YOU DON’T CARE AND SHE’LL CHASE YOU,SHOW A WOMAN YOU DON’T CARE AND SHE WILL REPLACE YOU!

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